I've been thinking about this a lot. Women need more places to come together to support one another. Women need a safe space to try on new ways of being. A place to catch a glimpse of what is possible when women hold each other up. When women bear witness to the lives of other women, and honor them for what they have been through, survived, achieved… it gives them permission to fully bear witness to their own lives, their own stories. Permission to stand in their truth and be honored in return for their strength, their beauty.
It is typical in America that women give and give. Women do for others all day, every day, without stopping to refill their own bucket. We are so busy being busy in our lives. Grab a workout before work. Try and leave work on time to pick up the kids at day care. Stop at the store for groceries for dinner. Make dinner. Homework. Bath time. Bed time. Try and get through some of the emails that didn’t get addressed at work before hitting the sack ourselves. Sometimes we numb ourselves out with alcohol and bad TV. We congratulate ourselves when we slow down and take an hour at a time for ourselves for yoga, or a massage, or quick workout. When was the last time you were fully present and engaged at home, at work? We think an hour spent on ourselves is going to set us right again. For most of us, it gets us through another day, another week and then we put another cups worth of water in our empty bucket and do it all again.
When was the last time that you took the time to reflect on the strength it’s taken to get to where you are in life? When was the last time another person has said to you “Wow, that’s really something. You’re an amazing human being”? Does the idea of spending 3 days checked out of real life, and focusing on yourself scare the pants off you? Does it feel selfish? Is it strange to think about spending $500 on yourself in one fell swoop? Lean in to that discomfort and think about doing it anyway. Retreats like this one, are a magical gift to yourself. Aren’t you worth it?
It's a lot easier to refill the bucket by dipping the whole thing into the well.