Sunday, September 6, 2015
What's the best thing when you find you've temporarily lost your way?
We all lose our way from time to time. All of us. Anyone who says they don't has got to be pulling your leg.
I've found myself in that place of late. I have had my head down being so busy being busy that I looked up and found myself overwhelmed, under appreciated, under rested, eating and drinking more than I need to, not doing any small acts of self-care. Lost. Well, if I'm really being honest... lost and utterly lacking in anything resembling joy or happiness. Imagine my surprise. I certainly know better. But, there it is.
Thank God for girlfriends. In these times, it's my girlfriends who are my compass. They help me pull out the map of my life (which is never folded correctly), and help me identify which particular eddy it is that has me swirling and where it is that I want to go.
Good girlfriends will crawl around in the darkness with you, shining a flashlight on the things you didn't want to look at. They'll sit with you during the ugly cry and say "I know." A really good girlfriend will call you on your *ish when you try to get in your head and logic it away. And they'll invite you to come to yoga with them and begin to do a kindness to your mind, body and soul.
And if you're not ready to have the light shone on something hard to look at. Don't worry. Your girlfriend will be ready with her flashlight another day. You can try again then. She's not going anywhere.
Baby steps my friends. An extra glass of water one day. A long walk the next. If you move in the direction you need to go, it doesn't matter if it's a baby step at a time. Keep on moving. You won't be lost for long. Your girlfriends will see to that.